1. "You look great!"

    你真帥

    Men have insecurities, just like women. And whether he shows it or not, sometimes he's wondering if his shirt looks better tucked in or out, or if his belly is sticking out a little too far over his belt. This is an especially good compliment if he's been going to the gym-why do you think he's doing all that working out?

    男人和女人一樣，也缺乏安全感。不論他有沒有表現出來，有的時候他也會想他的襯衫是扎進去好看還是不扎進去的好。

    2. "I love your [insert body part]"

    我喜歡你的（鼻子，眼睛……）

    Sometimes it helps to get specific-see the above tip. And, we're not gonna lie, one of the best fill-in-the-blanks here is, "I love your you-know-what" （or whatever word you can say without laughing or blushing too much.） Men are sensitive about their manly bits and they want to know that you're attracted to what they have.

    有的時候夸的具體點更好，當然這并不是讓你去欺騙對方，譬如"你真厲害，……都懂".

    3. "I love it when you [insert action]."

    我喜歡你……

    This is one that can benefit you as much as him. Men are the traditional initiators, and even if your man isn't the one to make the first move, chances are he sometimes feels like he should. If you don't tell him what you like, he's just flying blind. In fact, if you haven't complimented him he might even think you don't like what he's doing. And of course, the more you tell him you love it when he scratches your lower back, or runs your fingers along your chest, the more he'll do it.

    這樣說，可以讓他開心，也可以讓自己開心。如果你告訴他你喜歡他什么，他就不會知道。

    4. "That woman just checked you out."

    有個美女在看你。

    Yes, this helps his self-confidence. But it also tells him that you just saw another woman looking at him and you're not afraid to tell him. It shows that you're confident enough to know that he won't be lured away by another gal. Plus, what guy can resist the thought women are giving him the once-over?

    這樣說可以提升他的自信心。同時，你看到一個女人看著他，你卻不擔心，還告訴了他，這也說明你充分相信他。

    5. "You're right."

    你說得對！

    We all like to be right, men included. And you know what? Sometimes they are. It probably happens less often than he thinks, but when he is right, it's nice to tell him, especially if you were arguing. Sure, it might make you feel a little sheepish, but it's worth it in the end. It'll make him feel good, and showing that you're a reasonable creature who can admit when you're wrong will help temper future disagreements.

    每個人都希望自己是正確的，男人也是如此。

    6. "Will you help me unscrew this?"

    你能幫我……

    Men like to feel manly. It might not be PC, but it's ingrained in our culture. Helping women with simple tasks makes them feel macho and noble. We're not saying you should ask him to do things you can easily do yourself, but if you do need assistance, it's a little ego-booster he'll be happy to accept.

    男人喜歡展現自己男人的一面。

    7. "You're not going bald."

    你頭發總是那么多。

    About one-quarter of men start losing their hair at age 25 and two-thirds have begun balding by 60. Losing his locks is one of a man's greatest fears. So even if he is getting a bit naked up top, tell him he's not. It's the male equivalent of "Do these jeans make me look fat?" No honey, of course not.

    正常男人從25歲開始漸漸地有禿頭的現象，有2/3的男人在60歲的時候禿頭了。