Guys, it's never too early to start preparing how to show your love for her on Valentine's Day. Don't buy a card the night before and expect her to be thrilled. Here are five simple things you can do that will make her day.

    Too often, we guys treat Valentine's Day too lightly, and our last minute shopping and lack of planning does not go over well. Want to knock her socks off? Here are five simple things you can try.

    1. Write a Love Journal: As far in advance as you can, start a journal of love notes to your significant other. Keep it secret, of course, but give it to her on Valentine's Day. This will show her that you've been loving her all along and that Valentine's Day isn't just a one day thing.

    2. Homemade Coupons: Give her a stack of hand-written notes -- "coupons" -- that list things you will do for her and that she can redeem at any time. These can include household chores, yard work, back massages, nights out with the ladies, or whatever. Pick things that you know she will appreciate.

    3. Make Today Special: Think about something that you would normally do for her on Valentine's Day, and then do it today instead. Repeat tomorrow, and then the next day, etc. On the one hand, this might make Valentine's Day less special, but at some point she'll realize that you're treating her to Valentine's Day every day.

    4. What She Wants: Skip the chocolate and flowers unless you KNOW that she REALLY likes that. What does she really want? For you to cook the dinner? For you to give her a foot rub? For you to take the daughter to ballet? This of course means that you've got to have an inkling of what's important to her.

    5. No Strings Attached: In all these things, show her that your love for her is unconditional. Don't demand or expect anything in return. She wants to be loved for who she is, not because of what she'll do for you.

    Happy Valentine's Day, y'all.

    男同胞們,現在開始準備情人節如何向你的她示愛不算太早。不要在情人節之前買卡片并期望她會很激動。你可以做5件簡單的事情,讓她高興。

    我們男同胞對情人節很輕率,常常沒有計劃而且在最后時刻才去購買禮物,這樣把事情搞得一團糟。想占有她嗎?這里有5件小事你可以嘗試一下。

    1.寫愛情日記:盡可能早地開始寫記錄你重要另一半的愛情日記。當然,你要把日記保密起來,在情人節那天交給她。這樣會讓她覺得你一直以來愛著她,并不是僅僅情人節這一天。

    2.自制優惠券:給她一堆已經寫好的便簽紙---“優惠券”—上面羅列著你想為她做的事情而且她可以任何時候使用它。這些可以包括家務、園藝、背部按摩、晚上與女性朋友出去約會以及其他任何東西。收集一些她會喜歡的東西。

    3.讓每天變得特別:考慮一下你想在情人節為她做什么,那么就把今天當作情人節來過。明天也這么做,后天也一樣。另一方面,這樣做就會使得情人節顯得沒那么特別,然而重要的是這會讓她覺得天天都在過情人節。

    4.她想要什么:除非她真得很喜歡巧克力和鮮花,要不你就不要買。她真正想要什么呢?讓你做一頓晚餐?讓你幫她揉揉腳底?讓你像父親一樣帶著她去看芭蕾舞?當然,這意味著你首先應該知道什么東西對她來說是重要的。

    5.無任何附帶條件:這所做的一切讓她認為你對她的愛是無條件的。不要要求或希望有任何的回報。她希望她被愛是因為她是誰,而不是她能為你做什么。

    祝大家情人節快樂!